I feel I should clarify a bit. While I completely understand the "sheepdog" mentality, such as
@brownie's inclinations....
I also FEEL them. That INSTINCT is there for me, too. I hate ****ing violent criminals.
As a consistent concealed firearms carrier - I think it's important to go through the various mental machinations of self-defense and violent crime scenarios.
"What would I do if....." I think it's important to work through them MENTALLY. Many times. In every conceivable scenario.
While I do have that "sheepdog" mentality,
I have to balance it against my other obligations in life. Namely: My family.
Yes... I am compelled to defend other victims. I think especially if I can see it happening in front of me. Less so, if it's a distance away / out of my sight. But, where is my bigger sense of obligation? To go HOME to my FAMILY. To be able to provide for them materially and to BE THERE for them. Heroes don't always survive. Would I rather be a hero to strangers? Or be there for my family?
I also understand
@Anduril's somewhat contemptuous position towards those who CHOOSE not to carry a defensive weapon (for whichever reasons).
The reality is that running TOWARDS gunfire is a significant risk... not just legally, but to your life. Do I want to risk my life and my FAMILY's well-being for strangers? The short answer is NO.
Now... If I had been in the Publix, and IN VIEW (and range), at the time that grandmother and child were randomly murdered by a psychopath a year or so ago... Would I have acted? Probably. Maybe. If I felt I might be in danger, as well, then yes. If the perp was 50 feet away with his back to me, and the door to the warehouse was 10 feet away... it would be quicker and safer for me to duck out the door to the back warehouse? I'm probably going to beat feet.
I see my defensive weapon as just that. Defensive. My primary goal in ANY case is to GO HOME to my family. Like
@Anduril , I will feel bad for the victims. But I will find comfort in being home with my own family. If I was a single man or no family? I would likely feel differently. And, of course, if I had chosen to be a professional sheepdog... also different.